2-Day Marriage Intensive

Leadership is heavy. Marriage shouldn’t have to be.

The BMU 2-Day Marriage Intensive is a high-impact, immersive experience created specifically for pastors, church leaders, and their spouses who are ready to go beyond the surface. Whether you're navigating burnout, distance, unspoken tension, or just want to deeply reconnect in a safe, guided setting, this intensive is designed to bring you clarity, emotional breakthrough, and a new strategy for building a marriage that works with your calling, not against it.

This is not passive therapy. It is proactive coaching, real-life application, and spiritual alignment—led by a couple who has lived through burnout, betrayal, and breakthrough.

What's Covered in Your 2-Day Intensive:

Day 1 – The Real Reset

• Foundations, Fractures & Fatigue: Map your emotional and spiritual state, identify what’s fueling disconnection without shame, and gain an understanding of ministry trauma and compassion fatigue.
• Communication + Conflict Detox: Discover your personal conflict style, learn the 3-phase “Conflict to Connection” path, and begin rebuilding honest, safe communication around difficult topics like money, resentment, and unspoken pain.

Day 2 – The New Blueprint

• Restoring Vision and Roles: Build your 90-Day Marriage Playbook (customized to your ministry load), redefine leadership roles in the home, resolve resentment, and plan rhythms for sabbatical and spiritual reset.
• Marriage on Mission: Align your individual callings without competing, establish necessary boundaries with board, staff, and congregation, create a Marriage Rule of Life, and finalize your journey with a guided intimacy re-commitment exercise.

You Will Also Receive:

• A safe, immersive experience for ministry couples.
• A Marriage & Family Action Plan for re-engagement.
• Access to Communication, Connection, and Forgiveness Labs.
• A Pastoral and Ministry Assessment (if ministry qualification is in question).
• The right space, the right tools, and guidance from a couple who’s been there.

Ideal For: Pastoral and ministry couples in need of restoration, leaders post-crisis or transition, staff marriages showing signs of strain, or churches who want to proactively invest in the long-term health of their shepherds.